Valentine's charge for men

Written by Tosin Ayo A.K.A Word Bank
VALENTINE CHARGE 1...
Dear men, today is valentine's day, know ye Therefore that it is not the United Nations Day of Sexual defilement, It is not African Union's day of sexual reward, It is not the World's love
making day or Serpentine day. It is not a day for the exchange of gifts with 'goodies' or demanding sexual gratification for unsolicited emotional investment. It is not a day to
legitimately demand sex from the one
you claim to love or play the ugly card of emotional blackmail to lure a woman to bed because you bought her a gift.
If you will feel entitled to a woman's body because of how much you are spending, don't spend! Love does not always have to be romantic, touch a woman's heart, not handle with her body, don't live all your life trying to get
physical with her in bed, don't empty your bank account to add to a woman's body count.

Don't put yourself under undue emotional pressure because of one day of exhibitionist display of unreal affection. Your love is not your
pocket, your emotion is not in your wallet. Don't break the bank to simply keep up appearance, its St. Valentine's day, not hers.
Emotion and Attention may sound alike, but kindly note the difference. If you have to ruin a woman's dignity before you can appreciate her gift, your affection is questionable. If you
specially require a day to express your love to the one you love, your hypocrisy is matchless.
It is demonic to celebrate ten years' Valentine's day with a woman who you are too dishonourable to make your wife. Stop wasting The poor woman's time, put a ring on it or let
her go. Love is not only blind, it is deaf, it neither sees nor hears, its only felt. Love does not consist in empty boasts of flowery, ruinous words, it is manifested by little but consistent action of kindness and humanitarian gestures.
Love is not a synonym for sex, it is a biological
imperative for tender care, affection and mutual
respect. If your love needs the proof of sexual endorsement for its genuineness, it is a genetic failure.

P.S: Images culled from Google